"Come To The Table..."

Certified Sex Addiction Recovery and Partners Recovery

Certified Sex Addiction Recovery About Tom and Michele Weaver

Tom & Michele

Here at Come To The Table Ministry, we deeply understand the struggles of individuals battling sexual addiction. Our mission is to shine a light on this challenging issue, providing validation and unwavering support to those navigating through their journey.

We are both certified in Sex Addiction Recovery, Partners Recovery, Partner Betrayal Trauma, and Intimacy Anorexia through the American Association of Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT), and professionally trained by some of the “industry’s” most prominent experts. 

Our goal is to create a safe and nurturing environment where individuals can explore their struggles and work towards healing. Whether you’re directly affected by sexual addiction or supporting a loved one, we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Together, let’s embark on this journey towards recovery, renewal, and empowerment. Reach out to Come To The Table Ministry today and take the first step towards reclaiming your life.

Through our coaching, we provide the tools and strategies to nurture self-care on all levels, allowing individuals to rediscover themselves and their voices. We firmly believe that silence offers no hope, and our goal is to break through that silence, offering a beacon of support and understanding.

If you’re seeking guidance and assistance on your journey to sexual recovery in California, Maryland, reach out to Come To The Table Ministry. Let’s embark on this transformative journey together towards renewal and empowerment.



We sponsor groups for men, women and couples. Join us online or in-person and connect with others!


As certified life coaches, we can help establish a baseline for spiritual, mental, physical and emotional growth.


From polygraphs to conversations with ministry leaders, we are happy to assist with all aspects of recovery.

& Conferences

At the Men Make Men Retreat, discover growth and connection through meaningful discussions and shared experiences. From addressing personal struggles to fostering brotherhood, this journey empowers each man to become his best self.

Step into the sanctuary of healing and resilience at our Princess Warriors Retreat. Through storytelling, support groups, and therapeutic activities, women navigate betrayal’s aftermath, reclaiming strength and worth as empowered warriors.

Our Podcast

You can find the entire episode list on Spotify.

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We are dedicated to providing hope and healing for individuals grappling with sexual integrity, addiction, brokenness, betrayal, or the ripple effects of addiction. Through our extensive experience in this field, we offer valuable resources and a supportive forum for asking questions and finding solutions.

Drawing from our own journey, Tom & Michele are committed to assisting others in navigating their paths. They have transformed their experiences from darkness into powerful tools for redemption and restoration, both for themselves and their relationships.


I couldn't help but think how the enemy intended to take Tom and Michele down and use it for evil and despair, but instead they have formed a ministry that took that awful time in their lives and turned it into something beautiful and redeeming to not only help themselves but so many others who otherwise would not be in a healing journey that they're in today. Praise God and CTM!

I typically do not go on retreats and really do not care for them. However, this retreat changed my life. God met me in an amazing way. For the first time, I truly felt loved, seen, and validated. This was the connection and community my heart has been longing for. I do not feel so alone anymore. The content was so relevant and helped me understand why I feel the way I do. Throughout the weekend, we were continually pointed back to our Heavenly Father, His Word, and how much He loves us and wants to heal us. On Sunday morning, God gave me the phrase "this is where the healing begins" (also the name of a 10th Avenue North song). I truly feel that this is where my healing has begun. This will be a hard road, but God has given me the strength, encouragement and sisters to walk through this journey with me. I am forever grateful to the Lord for allowing me to be here. I can't wait for the next retreat!

The retreat has been the surgery for my soul that I so desperately needed after 20+ years of abuse. I forgot what it was like to laugh, smile and enjoy myself. I love we can learn connect and remember what it is to just be together and enjoy!

I cannot thank you enough for starting this ministry and having these conferences. I'm sorry you had to go through the journey that you did but it is proof that God brings beauty out of ashes. God changed my life through this retreat. I have never felt so open and free to talk about these things in the context of other believers. To be continually immersed in God's word and have everything spoken about in the context of His Love and His Word was amazing. I have been in denial and kind of frozen for 6 years. I came back from the retreat a different person and ready to start this healing journey, even though it is already incredibly hard. The retreat provided a safe place. I felt safe talking with everyone there. I have never felt that before, other than in counseling or with my closest friends. I now have a whole community of women, walking through this journey and we can help each other. I'm so grateful to God and grateful to the 2 of you for this. I can't wait for the conference next year. Thank you so much for allowing God to work through your story and pain to bring this about. God is so good!

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