Betrayal Trauma First Responder
Online Training

In every church community, individuals are silently suffering from the effects of trauma—be it from abuse, betrayal, grief, addiction, or life-altering experiences. Ministry leaders are often the first people these individuals turn to, yet many feel ill-equipped to respond effectively.

This online training is designed to equip pastors, ministry leaders, and lay leaders with foundational understanding and practical skills to serve as faith-based first responders—providing immediate spiritual and emotional support, while recognizing when to refer for professional care.

Training Topics Include:

  • Understanding Trauma – Learn the basics of trauma: what it is, how it affects the brain and body, and how it manifests in behavior and relationships.
  • Trauma in Faith Communities –  Explore the unique challenges trauma survivors face within spiritual settings, including issues of trust, spiritual abuse, and shame.
  • The Role of the First Responder – Clarify what your role is—and isn’t—as a faith leader. Learn how to listen well, respond without causing harm, and walk with someone through their first steps of healing.
  • When and How to Refer – 
  • Gain insight into recognizing signs that indicate the need for professional mental health intervention and learn best practices for referring individuals to trusted counselors and therapists.
  • Creating a Safe Space – Understand how to foster an emotionally and spiritually safe environment where individuals feel seen, heard, and supported.

Pastors, ministry staff, small group leaders, lay counselors, women’s and men’s ministry leaders, and anyone who desires to be a safe and informed presence for those experiencing trauma.

Join Dr. Barbara Steffens, expert in trauma-informed care and co-author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse, and Lyschel Burket, APSATS-certified coach and founder of Hope Redefined, for this impactful and transformational training session.

Bridging the Gap: Porn’s Negative impacts & Solutions for Your Family

While the presentation primarily focuses on the negative effects of pornography, it does so in a way that is shame-free and empathetic. It acknowledges that many people—both youth and adults—may already struggle with pornography consumption and that this does not define them. The parent/community presentation emphasizes scientific research, personal accounts, and practical solutions for parents, caregivers, and individuals. However, it does not delve deeply into comprehensive sex education or a broader discussion of healthy sexuality in detail.

That said, there are implied discussions about healthy sexuality, such as:
  • Encouraging open, shame-free conversations between parents and children about sex and pornography.
  • Addressing misconceptions about relationships and intimacy that pornography can create.
  • Emphasizing the importance of real connection and consent in relationships.
If parents or caregivers want to supplement this with broader conversations about healthy relationships and sexuality, the presentation encourages ongoing dialogue and provides tools like the Let’s Talk About Porn discussion guide.
 
Ultimately, the goal is not to condemn but to empower individuals to make informed choices about pornography while providing hope and resources for those who want to break free from its negative effects.