Resources
On this page are a number of resources to help you. However, you do not need to walk through this battle alone. If you are looking for help, make sure you reach out to us through the “About Us” page.
Test
Sometimes it’s useful to have a quantitative tests to help us identify where we might need help or even to support our decision to get help. Below you will find a number of different tests that can be useful to evaluate yourself.
Addicts
More information on intimacy anorexia can be found at IntimacyAnorexia.com
Partners
More information on the following tests can be found at PartnerBetrayalTrauma.org
Accountability and Filtering Software
We have summarized some key features of a number of different options for accountability software that are on the market today. For a more detailed list, visit Today’s Pastor.
When looking for accountability software, there are number of different things to look for depending on your need and the number / types of devices to monitor. Make sure you look around and find what best suites you.
Net Nanny – https://www.netnanny.com/
PC Tattletale – http://www.pctattletale.com
Sentry PC – http://www.sentrypc.com/home
Accountable2You – http://www.accountable2you.com
Covenant Eyes – http://www.covenanteyes.com/
McAfee Safe Eyes – https://family.mcafee.com/
Qustudio – http://www.qustodio.com/
Web Watcher – http://www.webwatcher.com
X3 Watch – http://x3watch.com/
Circle – https://meetcircle.com
OpenDNS – http://www.opendns.com/home-internet-security
Canopy – https://canopy.us/
| Computer Monitoring | Smartphone Monitoring | Home Use | Business Use | Group Use | Email Alerts | Summary Emails | Remote Monitoring | Free Trial | Website Blocking | Website Category Filtering | Chat Monitoring | Search Monitoring | Usage Monitoring | App Usage Monitoring | Stealth Operation | Track Location | Time-Based Filtering | Router Based | Accountability Partners | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| KidsWatchTM | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||
| Net Nanny | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | ||||||||||||
| PC Tattletale | X | X | X | X | ||||||||||||||||
| Sentry PC | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | ||||||||||
| Accountable2You | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | ||||||||||||
| Covenant Eyes | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | ||||||||||
| McAfee Safe Eyes | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||
| Qustudio | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||||
| Web Watcher | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||||
| X3 Watch | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||||
| Circle | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||||||
| Open DNS | X | X | X | X | X | |||||||||||||||
| Canopy | X | X | X | X | X | X | X | X |
Recommended Books
- Facing the Shadows - Patrick Carnes
- Intimacy Anorexia: Healing Your Hidden Addiction in Your Marriage - Douglas Weiss
- Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing - Jay Stringer
- Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot - Mo Isom
- Boundaries - Dr. Cloud & Dr. Townsend
- Beyond Boundaries - Dr. Cloud & Dr. Townsend
- Recovery Zone Vol 1: Making Changes That Last - Patrick Carnes
- The Ultimate Guide to Christian Singleness - Mark Ballenger
- The Final Freedom: Pioneering Sexual Addiction Recovery - Douglas Weiss
- True Love Dates: Your Indespensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life - Debra Fileta
- The Porn Pandemic: A Simple Guide to Understanding and Ending Pornography Addiction for Men - Andrew Ferebee
- Beeting Sexual Temptation the Bible Way - Duke Jayaraj
Unstoppable You Conference
Unstoppable You Ministries, Inc. is a non-profit 501 (c) (3) faith-based organization that provides participants and their families with essential tools necessary to develop holistically (mind, body, and soul).
You can find them at https://unstoppableyouministriesinc.org/ and their YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9JzF6Q0J51vnv_1ca82yIw/featured
Tom and Michele spoke at the Unstoppable You Conference in Maryland 2021. You can watch their session to the right.
